My mother isn’t happy with her self-image. I love my mother, regardless of shape or size, but I can understand her frustration.

Over the past year, I’ve lost 25 pounds. I lost 25 pounds because I was mortified of the way I looked in my wedding pictures. The point was: I was motivated enough to make a difference.

Mom expressed an interest in Weight Watchers. In an effort to encourage her, I offered to be her buddy and join, too. I have a bit more weight I’d like to lose, and better eating would certainly help me do that, but more than anything, I want her to be confident and happy. I want her to be proud of herself, not discouraged, you know?

We went to our first meeting on Saturday, and really, it was far better than I anticipated. It feels very welcoming. It feels supportive. It feels like you’re not the only person thinking, “I need to make a change.”

So I just wanted to let you know – incase you’re feeling the same way. You’re not alone. We’re right there with you.